The
sad truth is that such boasts rarely make it into the second week of the New
Year, let alone into February.
“But
I really mean it this time!” we hear ourselves say. A favorite target for New
Year’s Resolutions is the promise of losing extra pounds. “I’ll get one of
those memberships at the club, and then I’m going to get up early every morning
and work out.” The weight-loss industry in America laughs all the way to the
bank, counting on such lame promises from an overweight populace that simply
cannot say no to rich, fattening foods.
Or perhaps you have come to the realization
that your attitude is more often than not, shall we say, unpleasant, and you
need to do something about it. It may well be affecting your marriage. And your
kids are avoiding you because you always seem to be crabby. But, by golly, you’re
going to fix it! Right? Yeah, sure. Good luck with that.
Now,
your idea of a New Year’s Resolution may be different than the two examples I
have given. But here’s my question to you: Just how do you plan to make your
resolution work? Hmmm?
Such
changes in your life center on your character.
During
the Clinton administration, we were exposed to any number of sexual exploits
and dalliances the president engaged in either during his governorship of
Arkansas, or during his time in the White House. Regardless, it was an
embarrassment on us as a nation. There were many of us who questioned the
character of this man. Some of his shameless defenders said such drivel as, “Character
doesn’t matter.” And this was said with a straight face!
One
of life’s truisms is that character does matter.
So
what does this have to do with a resolution? Everything! You see, as fallen
human beings we are inclined to always fall short of our intended improvements
in life. Sin infected the human condition causing us to strive to be better
only to find ourselves frustrated with personal effort. The truth is, as
creatures made in the image and likeness of God, we are incapable of conquering
such challenges in our own strength.
For
meaningful, lasting change, which speaks to character, it is God alone who can
bring about the desired change. “You mean God cares about whether or not I join
a gym? Or whether I can lose 10 pounds by February 1st? Or whether I’m
loving toward my spouse and kids?” Yes, God cares very much about such things –
and everything else going on in your life, too. And since he made you, he knows
exactly how you work best. The only difference is whether you allow him to have
control over your life or not.
I
would invite you to consider the following invitation from Jesus found in
Matthew 11:28-30. I’m using the Amplified Version to show the many ways God
calls you to himself so that he can do in you that which you could never do. Ask
yourself, “Do I want the change God can bring into my life?”
“Come
to Me, all you who labor and are heavy-laden and overburdened, and I will cause
you to rest. [I will ease and relieve and refresh your souls.] Take My yoke
upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle (meek) and humble (lowly) in heart,
and you will find rest (relief and ease and refreshment and recreation and
blessed quiet) for your souls. For My yoke is wholesome (useful, good – not harsh,
hard, sharp, or pressing, but comfortable, gracious, and pleasant), and My
burden is light and easy to be borne.”
When
God has control of your life, he changes your character so when you say you’re
going to do a certain task, or make a specific commitment, it’s no longer you
trying to make it happen, but God who strengthens you to accomplish his will.
If
you’re serious about lasting change that will produce godly character, then surrender your heart and life to him.
I
can’t think of a better way to begin the New Year!